Life Lately

My blog this month has become like  my relationship with my grandmother.  I mean to call once a week or at least once a month but life gets crazy and time just seems to disappear.  I really do love her and want to talk to her and update her on my life but the longer I put off the phone call, the more guilt I have for that call taking so long.  So here I am, shamefully dialing her number, feeling bad but knowing she loves me anyways :) Right?  Sorry blog, I promise to do better.

Life lately has been hectic but a little monotonous for the most part.  I feel like my family is in a "grind" season.  Every week we are working towards being on a better schedule, getting more accomplished and when Will and I do get a little bit of time on Friday night for a movie, we are both usually catching flies fifteen minutes into the new James Bond movie for the fifth time because we cant seem to get through that stinkin movie.

In our short time of being South Carolina residents, I have been reminded of how much I LOVE the south.  While I am a Jersey girl at heart, nothing warms my soul like some sweet tea and smocked children's outfits.  It just feels friendly everywhere you go down here.  We have moved about 30 minutes away from one of the most beautiful and historic cities in the country.  However, fun fact, not all of the surrounding areas of Charleston have the pastel colored beach houses and waterfront views.  There are actually some parts right around this amazing city that are just a little on the plain and not so fancy side, but are a very convenient distance from the Navy base.  While I knew we were moving into a very cookie cutter, suburban house, a good distance from downtown; for some reason I expected to see palm trees and cobblestone leading up to our neighborhood and was even hoping to get a whiff of the ocean from my driveway.  Yes, I was a little unrealistically disappointed on moving day.  Fortunately that feeling didn't last long knowing we weren't too far from that magical place everyone raves about.

Most days feel like the epitome of the early years of motherhood.  The race of meals, naps, toys and bath time.  The abrupt transition from catching a nap while my parents play with the kids, to praying that naps are in sync so I can catch a shower was a rude awakening for me.  Big Will has been way busier with school than any of us anticipated.  He ends up just being home a couple hours for dinner most evenings and then heads back to study till late.   This part of training has been a really big challenge for him and it has really made me feel the need to help him in any way I can.  School is more important than me getting help with the kids right now so I try my hardest to just greet him with a warm meal, some encouragement and a swift kick back out the door to go study more.

Even though we really don't eat out much in trying to save money and since two years old and seven months old is not really a prime age to be frequenting restaurants, we have been able to check out downtown a few times.  We took on King St while Wills parents were in town and let me tell you, the reviews were spot on.  Not only do you have all of the best shopping you could ever ask for but they are all nestled between the most beautiful old buildings.  The food, the shopping, the ocean, the houses; it is seriously the most breathtaking town I have ever encountered!! I am so excited to experience more of Charleston during our time here.  One of the few restaurants we checked out downtown was an upscale barbecue place and I am quite convinced that it was designed by Chip and Joanna Gaines.  I mean, what is better than shiplap and pulled pork??

After a recommendation from Wills speech therapist, I knew as soon as we moved here I wanted to get Will in some sort of mothers day out program.  For some reason the north has not caught onto the whole idea of MDO.  It seems to be that it is daycare or nothing.  A real travesty if you ask me.  My Mama heart was not ready for this but I knew the socialization and structure would help his speech.  Frankly, I also knew he was getting a little bored with Brother and I, and was dying for some play time with other kids.  Fortunately after a little searching we found a fantastic Mothers Morning Out program at a local church that was just the perfect fit for us.  We were able to ease into it with just two days a week.  I was not sure how he would handle this new environment for four hours a day but he tries to ditch me as soon as we get in the building and dart off to his class.  He also insists on going back and blowing kisses to his teachers as we are leaving.  It is just the best feeling seeing someone else love on your baby so well!!

The past two months have been all about finding our new "normal", not only being in a new area but also getting used to living as a family of four.  Its been all about trying to get back to the gym, getting a little more frugal, meal planning, cleaning and all that fun stuff.  Some might call it boring, but Im not going to lie, I love a good to-do list and a little cleaning.  However, laundry, I could do without.  While it is exciting to have new adventures to plan, it still has us a bit out of our comfort zone.  God has really tugged at my heart to trust in His timing when it comes to the getting plugged in and the overwhelming parts of being in a new area. I know this is a season and with that is just more challenges that make me realize I need to stay hungry for God and His word.  He is the only one who NEVER lets me down.  On the tough days I can remember that He is molding me and shaping me.  This transition has not been super easy but I really do think the Lord has just been comforting me and coming in exactly when I need it.  It also helps that I have a mom and three sisters that I can call and talk their ear off when I need someone to drink my nap time coffee with!

This update was little all over the place, but I guess you could say I am a little all over the place.  Thanks for being patient with me and my little blog! Stay tuned for our next update or crazy adventure!